Part 1: Twitter
I quit Twitter for the third time last month.
Before leaving this time, I reached out to the few people on Twitter I actively interacted with. I was able to move some of those conversations to Discord and Instagram, but I know it won’t always be the same.
Twitter is a horror show for people who feel real anxiety just from witnessing anger and cruelty. I’ve received plenty of abuse and threats through Twitter over the years because of my work, but the stuff that actually sticks with me is what I see happening to others. Whether it’s learning too much about the sacrificial character of the day or falling down a thread of abusive replies to a random tweet, it’s difficult to avoid “negativity” on a platform that seems designed to reward it.
That’s basically it. Even the nice, innocuous things on Twitter felt slimed by negativity. What made me quit, however, was that I felt negative there. I felt incapable of having a conversation on Twitter without being cynical.
Part 2: RSS and feeds
Who still uses RSS in 2021? Me, mostly. But I’m weaning myself off it.
I’ve reverted to 2003 with this one. I re-bookmarked every site I had loaded into Feedly. All of these sites are now living in folders on my bookmarks folder in Edge. All of these folders are available in two clicks on my phone, because Edge syncs them (just like Safari/Chrome, etc). Every site is now opt in, and I won’t find out about anything unless I go looking for it.
It’s mostly about self care. Social media feeds (even in something like an RSS reader) are designed to screw with your sense of time. By design, they hide people you like and have chosen to follow so that you never leave and always feel a bit sad. It’s literally a no win situation unless you’re a sociopath. Treating the internet like it’s 2004 is a way to keep some of that anxiety at bay.